Thursday, January 17, 2013

Winning Over Worry


Here's a few thoughts I didn't get to share yesterday.  They are miscellaneous bits of information – which all can be summarized by David's statement in  Psalm 37:8   …    Do not fret--it only causes harm.
   
In the New Testament one Greek word translated as "worry" is merimnao, which means "to be anxious, to be distracted" or "to have a divided mind" (merizo, "to divide"—nous, "the mind").
—To worry is to divide your mind between that which is useful and worthwhile and that which is damaging and destructive.
—To worry is to block the flow of creative energy in your life.
               
The concept of worrying is conveyed throughout Scripture by numerous words and phrases.
•             —to be fretful
•             —to be anxious
•             —to be concerned
•             —to be weighed with cares
•             —to be heavy-hearted
•             —to be without peace
•             —to be distracted
•             —to be troubled
•             —to be distressed
•             —to be despairing

Disbelief
Worry reveals that you really don't believe God when He says He will provide all that you need.
"The Lord will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail." Isaiah 58:11

Worry reveals that you are taking on personal responsibility and concern for that which God has already promised to provide.
Worry shifts the focus of attention from the all sufficient power of Christ to your human insufficiency and insecurity. Ultimately, worry can undermine your Christian witness by presenting God as impotent and unworthy of praise.
"In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven." Matthew 5:16

 What Is the Focus of Worry?
A specific characteristic of worry is a negative focus on the future. If you are a worrier, you are spending time speculating on what may or may not happen and then fearing the worst.
Destructive Worry
Constructive Concern
• paralyzes
• motivates
• decreases creativity
• increases creativity
• prevents initiative
• promotes initiative
• results in anxious fretting
• results in calm focusing
• attempts to control the future
• attempts to improve the future
• fears the worst
• hopes for the best
• appears negative to others
• appears positive to others
• distracts the mind from what is important
• directs the mind to what is important


What you worry about is not nearly as important as why you worry. You may know and love God, but when you trust in anything other than God's promises and provision for your life, then worry will turn your heart away from the Lord and turn your trust into distrust.

May the trials of our lives continue to cause our minds to run – to run to Jesus, rather than run from Him.

    Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28

4 comments:

  1. My bent is not toward worrying. I see the glass pretty much as full most of the time...I was taught to see things that way...Thank you Mama and Daddy. But when something in my life hit - I worried so badly I got a rash! Worrying was so foreign, it took me considerable time to get a hold of what was zapping my joy and robbing me of peace.
    I know the truth in the Word. I was failing to APPLY what I know to that particular situation. Once I began to apply His truth and be obedient to trust Him with the situation, not only did I once again have peace about it but my joy factor soared as well.
    That situation remains but worry is no longer a stronghold because not only IS He all that He claims to be but I TRUST that He is and that His Word applies to me personally in EVERY situation of my life.
    My parents taught me to SEE the cup as full...Jesus has taught us that the cup IS INDEED full, to overflowing. Our failure to acknowledge that fact doesn't drain the cup. It just blinds us to abundance within.



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  2. Thanks Cathy for this 2nd study on Worry. I love the lists. It helps me to get a bigger picture, and sometimes to see myself. Ouch! But needful.
    The worst thing (for me) is that worry or any of the giants is really unbelief. Unbelief in such a wonderful, awesome God hurts so much. It's really quite amazingly ignorant and arrogant and sinful.
    So, when I see myself heading towards a slippery slope of worry or discouragement or anger or resentment or guilt or any of the giants, I try to remember this is unbelief. Do I really not trust God? Do I really not believe Him?
    And that leads to worship and praise.
    I loved last Wednesday night how we were reminded over and over how much God loves us, how He sees us, how He wants to fellowship with us. Amazing! Throughout the Word even when the children of Israel rebelled or needed correction or were called on their unbelief, God still told them how much He loves them, how merciful and faithful and longsuffering He is. Come back and I will heal your backsliding. What a wonderful God we have!

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  3. Cheryl, I so agree! Thank you Cathy for the lists. They aide my ability to quickly identify whose camp I’m in. Am I believing the lies of the enemy or rejoicing in the truth of God’s word and all His promises?

    My mom, bless her heart, believed disaster was always just around every corner. So worry or fretting comes somewhat naturally. But I am now able to rejoice in the knowledge that I am born again. I now have faith, confident belief, that my Father loves me with an everlasting love and desires to give me good things!

    Father help my heart, mind, body and soul open to receive in full measure all your goodness and love. May I not only hope for the best but help me expect the best

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  4. I have found that as I mature in Christ, my identity in Him becomes stronger. Not because my position has changed, but because I can see more clearly how HE sees me. When I apply how much He loves me, what wonderful care He has given me in the past I can rest that He is faithful to see me through every perceived obstacle.

    Identifying the source of my thinking, in order to put a name to my giant, has been a huge leap for me. When I can identify what the giant is, I can more easily identify the lie or unbelief I am falling for. Then I can apply the truths more clearly and surely.

    Because of Cathy's teaching, the time in the Word, and the equipping of the Holy Spirit, we are now more aware of the weapons in the list of tools she has shown us- as long as we remember to use them.
    Ahh, there's the application with intention: in order to tame these giants,we must use the tools!

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